Well, we had our first appointment with a St. Albert based doctor that we found through a circuitous email/article forwarding/phone calling route last Friday, February 29th. We feel so blessed to have found Dr. Marlene Lidkea, and really feel that the Lord is providing his direction and leading for our family during this pregnancy.
We had our first two children at home with a midwife. Here in Alberta, midwives are not funded by provincial healthcare, as they are in other provinces such as British Columbia and Ontario, so we paid our midwife, Barbara Scriver for the births privately, and it was well worth it, we love Barb, and our first two births were just perfect, natural, intervention free, personal, just what we were looking for. However, this pregnancy we needed our funds in other areas, and were not certain how to proceed. Barb was on vacation, so we met with the other midwife in the Edmonton area, but we still didn’t feel entirely settled until we came upon the article describing Dr. Lidkea’s services.
She works together with a Registered Nurse and a team of doula’s to provide home births in the greater Edmonton area, that the provincial health care system funds! Wow! What provision from God! We called, met with one of the doula’s, loved her, and booked an appointment, and it was last Friday, our first prenatal appointment.
Everything went well, and we heard babys’ heartbeat, the only surprise was that I was measuring big for my dates…very big….
*Flashback to Fall 2007* ————–>
Our second child was around 1.5 yrs. and still breastfeeding, my cycles had returned for a few months, but bleeding was light, and my cycles were long and somewhat erratic, different lengths. I was keeping meticulous records, this pregnancy I would know EXACTLY when we conceived! We weren’t planning, or trying, just waiting on God’s timing, but we were expecting to become pregnant at some point in time. However, after 4 months or so, I gave up, Ah, I thought to myself….it’s going to be a LONG time until I become pregnant again, why bother tracking.
Two months later, and after some shorter, heavier periods, …tada! Positive pregnancy test, and NO written records available…hmmm. Around mid October I started feeling tha we may have conceived. I tested in mid-late October, negative, 1 week later, light positive, a couple of days later, dark positive! We were pregnant, with no really firm dates to go by, but I felt fairly certain mid-October was the conception time for us!
A midwife told us a traditional way of telling a due date, is taking the time of quickening, the babys’ first movements that are certain, and add five months for an approximate due date. When baby moved for certain, DH and I did some quick math and got early July, the same date as we received after speaking with Barb about a mid-October conception date.
*Flashforward to late-Winter 2008* ————–>
So here we were in Dr. Lidkea’s office…supposed to be somewhere around 21 weeks, and measuring 30 cm. Hmmm, after some discussions we booked an ultrasound (normally we don’t), and long story short, this coming Monday we are having it done.
Oddly, two days before our appointment an email was sent to the Above Rubies mailing list regarding what factors increase your chances of twin pregnancies, and conception while breastfeeding was amongst those odds-increasing factors. The next day I mentioned this article to DH, and showed him a picture of a family with 14 children, I said, “Wow, do you think God might bless us with so many?” We thought, likely not, I’m already 28, and Larry is 42, and I said “Not unless God puts us on the fast-track plan and starts laying on the multiples!” I laughed then, I’m still chuckling and asking “Hmmm, God?” My paternal grandmother also lost a set of twins, and the RN mentioned that practically twins often skip a generation. So, are we having multiples? I am LESS sick with this pregnancy than my first two, but apparently that isn’t the only factor, and some women don’t get sicker with a twin pregnancy. It looks like we will need to transfer to an OB if we are having twins, because the province doesn’t allow twin births at home under its regulations. Off to the hospital it will be for us!
So, what do you think? Twins, or a super big singleton? Or, I messed up really badly on my dates? Hmmm, comments welcome.